Grave with the Hands
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 The monument in 2016 | |
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| 51°10′52.1″N 6°0′0.5″E / 51.181139°N 6.000139°E | |
| Location | Begraafplaats Nabij Kapel in 't Zand, Roermond, Netherlands |
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| Type | Funerary monument |
| Material | Limestone,[1] sandstone, hardstone[2] |
| Completion date | c. 1888[3] |
| Restored date | 1972,[3] 2015–2016[4][1] |
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The Grave with the Hands (Dutch: Graf met de handjes, lit. 'Grave with the little hands') is a 19th-century funerary monument in the Dutch city of Roermond. It comprises two almost identical tombstones on either side of a wall separating the Catholic part from the Protestant part of Begraafplaats Nabij de Kapel in 't Zand (Cemetery Near the Chapel in the Sand), each with a carved arm and hand that clasps the other across the wall. The monument marks the graves of Josephina van Aefferden, a Catholic, and Jacobus van Gorkum, a Protestant, who were married in life, but had to be buried in separate sections of the cemetery. It was listed as a rijksmonument (state monument) in 2002.
Background[edit]
The cemetery Begraafplaats Nabij de Kapel in 't Zand, colloquially known as "Oude Kerkhof" (the "Old Cemetery"), originally served as a Jewish burial ground. By 1785, in reaction to Emperor Joseph II's order that forbade burials within churches and city walls within the Holy Roman Empire, it was expanded to accommodate Christian residents of Roermond.[4] Architect Pierre Cuypers undertook a redesign of the cemetery in 1858, walling off separate sections for Catholic and Protestant burials, and reserving a place for his own family.[5]
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Jacobus Warnerus Constantinus van Gorkum (1809–1880), originally from Amsterdam, was a son of cartographer and engineering officer Jan Egbert van Gorkum.[6][7] He became a cavalry colonel in the Dutch army, and militia commissioner of Limburg.[4] The 1839 Treaty of London divided the province of Limburg in two, with the eastern part going to the Netherlands and the western part to Belgium, and van Gorkum was one of the military men from Holland who settled in the Dutch part of Limburg.[8][4]
On 3 November 1842,[4] van Gorkum married Josephina Carolina Petronella Hubertina van Aefferden (1820–1888), a noblewoman from Roermond and a member of the Van Aefferden family of Dutch-Belgian nobility. She was the ninth of ten children.[9] Two of Josephina's brothers, Albert Pierre Joseph (1808–1892) and Felix Hendrik Johannes Hubertus (1811–1842), had previously raised a battalion of soldiers at their own expense with the aim of fighting on the Belgian side against the Dutch during the Belgian secession.[7][10]
The marriage was controversial for many reasons: van Gorkum was Protestant and van Aefferden was Catholic;[11] their families had fought on opposite sides of the recent war; he was 11 years older than she was; and he was a commoner while she was of noble birth.[7] To avoid provocation, their marriage was conducted in the German town of Pont, near Geldern, just across the border from Venlo.[7] The couple raised their five children in Catholicism.[11][4]
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After his death, on 28 August 1880,[4] van Gorkum was buried in the Protestant section of the cemetery. His widow desired to be buried next to him, instead of in the family mausoleum,[7] but as a Catholic, she could not be buried in unconsecrated ground. After she died on 29 November 1888, their children implemented her last wishes: a double grave, with markers on either side of the wall, connected by two arms reaching across the wall and holding hands. They were likely made in 1888, the year of her death, possibly by the Roermond firm Atelier Cuypers-Stoltzenberg.[3] The motto Vivit post funera virtus (Latin, transl. Virtue outlives death), originally from the van Gorkum family coat of arms, was chiseled on both monuments.[7]
Description[edit]
The neo-Gothic[2] grave markers, placed on a limestone base, consist of sandstone columns with a gable-shaped top that are higher than the wall separating them. At the top of each of the grave markers is a cross. On his side is the coat of arms of the van Gorkum family and on her side her arms of alliance. There is a wrought-iron fence around the base of each.[2]
The two hands, a man's hand from his monument, clasping a woman's hand from hers, symbolize the connection between the spouses across the boundaries of religion, family alliances and even death.[2]
The grave was listed as Rijksmonument number 520489 on May 27, 2002.[2]
Gallery[edit]
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Van Gorkum -
Van Aefferden -
Clasped hands
In popular culture[edit]
The story of Josephina van Gorkum was dramatized in 2016 in Les Culottées, a French webcomic by Pénélope Bagieu that depicts short biographies of unusual or inspiring women.[12] Les Culottées was published in two printed volumes, and then translated into English and released in a single volume in 2017.[13] In 2020, it was adapted into an animated series that aired on France Télévisions.[14][15] The animated series also was translated into Portuguese and broadcast on RTP2.[16]
References[edit]
- ^ a b Mathijs, Armand. "Graf met de Handjes -Grave with tiny hands". Retrieved 5 March 2024.
So yes, I'm proud that I did the restoration of this iconic grave. The headstone of the grave of the colonel and the hands that connects the two stones were carved in a similar limestone last year.
- ^ a b c d e "Rijksmonumentenregister:Tegenover Weg langs het Kerkhof 1, 6045 AN te Roermond" [National Monument Register: Opposite Weg langs het Kerkhof 1, 6045 AN in Roermond]. cultureelerfgoed.nl (in Dutch). Rijksdienst voor het Cultureel Erfgoed. Retrieved 5 March 2024.
- ^ a b c "Restauratie 'graf met de handjes'" [Restoration of the 'grave with the hands']. oudekerkhofroermond.nl (in Dutch). Stichting Oude Kerkhof. Retrieved 5 March 2024.
Het befaamde 'graf met de handjes' dateert waarschijnlijk uit 1888.
- ^ a b c d e f g Tückmantel, Ulli (18 November 2016). "Totensonntag: Die Liebe eines Ehepaares: Was aber Gott verbunden hat. . " [The Love of a Married Couple: What God Has Joined Together . . .]. Westdeutsche Zeitung (in German). Retrieved 11 March 2024.
- ^ "dr. Pierre Cuypers - Roermond - 1827-1921". cuypersroermond.nl (in Dutch). Werkgroep Pierre Cuypers, Roermond. Retrieved 5 April 2024.
- ^ "Indexen : DTB Dopen" [Index: DTB Baptisms]. Amsterdam City Archives (in Dutch). 1 October 1809. Retrieved 8 March 2024.
- ^ a b c d e f Vaessen, John. "Het 'graf met de handjes'" [The 'grave with the hands']. archiefroermond.nl (in Dutch). Gemeentearchief Roermond. Retrieved 6 March 2024.
- ^ Jacobs, Frank (23 July 2010). "1839, the Year Limburg Split in Two". Big Think. Retrieved 5 April 2024.
- ^ Nederland's adelsboek (in Dutch). 's-Gravenhage, W. P. Van Stockum en zoon. 1912. pp. 18–19.
- ^ Verzijl, J. "[Aefferden, Albert Pierre Joseph burggraaf van], Nieuw Nederlandsch biografisch woordenboek. Deel 9, P.J. Blok, P.C. Molhuysen". Digital Library for Dutch Literature (in Dutch). Retrieved 25 March 2024.
- ^ a b Jaromezuk, Andres (11 February 2023). "The Mystery Behind Holland's 'Grave with the Hands': A Beautiful Story of Eternal Love". EWTN. Retrieved 8 March 2024.
- ^ Bodoc, Clemence (8 February 2016). "Josephina van Gorkum, têtue jusque dans l'Au-Delà — Les Culottées, par Pénélope Bagieu" [Josephina van Gorkum, Stubborn Unto the Afterlife — Les Culottées, by Pénélope Bagieu]. Madmoizelle (in French). Retrieved 12 March 2024.
- ^ "Josephina Van Gorkum broke the rules by marrying a Protestant. Here's how she ensured eternity with him". The Washington Post. 13 January 2018. Retrieved 12 March 2024.
- ^ Zafimehy, Marie (15 March 2020). "'Culottées' : 3 raisons de regarder cette série féministe" (in French). RTL. Retrieved 12 March 2024.
- ^ "Culottées - Josephina van Gorkum, amoureuse têtue, à la tv". L'Internaute (in French). Retrieved 12 March 2024.
- ^ "SÉRIE: Destemidas EP26 - Josephina Van Gorkum" (in Portuguese). Saber Mais. 7 July 2020. Retrieved 12 March 2024 – via YouTube.
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